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Old 06-10-2019, 09:09 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Sorry to hear about the your FIL's failing health, hopefully he and your hubby get have some good time together.......
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Sorry to hear about the your FIL's failing health, hopefully he and your hubby get have some good time together....... <img src="https://www.hardcoresledder.com/forums/images/smilies/thumbsup.png" border="0" alt="" title="&#x1f44d;" class="inlineimg" />
Thanks Jerry. I'm not surprised he didn't tell us. Poor man has a TON of baggage. My husband said he has always been depressed and distant.

I'm mustering my patience and good will.

Just hoping he doesn't break any furniture or toilets this visit

Its just that very large people are hard on things lol
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At mr happy's perhaps?
First gal on that floor as a matter of fact lol
Yes True
But I made more money in the city
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Well I'm doing a combination of some of the "suggestions".

Firstly yes I am establishing rules and boundaries. No shoes in the house, thank God they don't smoke. And yes I'm making things very nice for MIL as it is difficult to criticize someone who extends themself and showers you with love and kindness.

I am more of a "kill them with kindness" kinda person than the other way.

My FIL also (we just found out last night) is not doing well. He has very little time left. And he and my husband were estranged for over a decade. Just the fact he actually wants to come and stay with us is uncharacteristic.

And they are staying for so long so they can see friends and family as they live in FLA and used to spend the summers here.

So I will diplomatically establish some rules (already did that on the phone) and it may very well be the last chance my husband and his dad have time together.

The funny thing is both my inlaws have a lot of ching. They could easily afford a hotel. But really I am surprised dad actually WANTS to stay with us.

I decided last night (actually both my h and I) we are going to grin and bear it. If I were sick and in failing health I would want a little mercy (my FIL isn't a very nice man, and that has hurt my husband over the years) so mercy and kindness I will give.

Ya I'm maybe a wimp. It's just, well my own life has had some real lows (horrible childhood, cancers, etc) and instead of being angry and hard hearted like Maybe I should be, I go the other route.
handle it in a way that best suits you. sometimes we (and you) have to think of ourselves. nothing wrong with that. other times we give in, not because we're soft, but because we think of the whole situation at hand. yes, it would be easier to send your relatives packing to a hotel, but that's not who you are , and you will give a bit of yourself to make them feel welcome. i think they call that the high road. don't worry, good karma will take care of you later. <img src="https://www.hardcoresledder.com/forums/images/smilies/thumbsup.png" border="0" alt="" title="&#x1f44d;" class="inlineimg" />
Aww sleepy that was nice for you to say. Makes my day!
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Old 06-10-2019, 11:42 AM   #25 (permalink)
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hell, if I Get rid of my new found muffin top fuck I'll go do Ashley's bikini thing lol
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I'll bet. I could remember spending a few wild nights in there back in the 80's.
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I'll bet. I could remember spending a few wild nights in there back in the 80's.<img src="https://www.hardcoresledder.com/forums/images/smilies/laff.gif" border="0" alt="" title="" class="inlineimg" />
The one and only time someone "slipped me a Mickey" in my drink happened there.

The rest to follow was like a Tarantino flick lol

I don't think the "customer" knew who he was dealing with
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The one and only time someone "slipped me a Mickey" in my drink happened there.

The rest to follow was like a Tarantino flick lol

I don't think the "customer" knew who he was dealing with
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Thanks Jerry. I'm not surprised he didn't tell us. Poor man has a TON of baggage. My husband said he has always been depressed and distant.

I'm mustering my patience and good will.

Just hoping he doesn't break any furniture or toilets this visit

Its just that very large people are hard on things lol

If they doo, replace them with comfort height/ handicap toilets more and more people using them now a days in their homes because they sit higher.......


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Interesting stuff. What was your stage name ?
How old where you when you quit ? I,m not sure making men happy is classified as a sin. LOL
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