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Jerry 976 01-01-2016 11:20 AM

Sad But True - Just Like You and Me!!!!
 
I did not write this,

This was NOT me or any of my friends,

This has been posted on here several times over the years and I usually repost this every year..........
:cry:





Just like you and me:

"I am not a writer. In fact, this is the first time I've written anything since college. I am, however, a snowmobiler.

My friends and I are probably just like you. We are all in our late twenties to early thirties, and single white males. We have pretty good jobs; some own their house, others rent. We hunt and fish, watch football and NASCAR, go to bars and church festivals. We have problems with women, like fast cars and Schwartzeneggar movies. We think we can dance, but look like Frankenstein having a seizure when a girl drags us onto the floor. We could probably switch places with any of you and fit right into your group.

We have owned sleds from all manufacturers over the years. Our first sleds were junkpiles and we still make fun of them. We work on our own sleds and help each other with theirs. We watch the weather forecasts waiting for snow and read all the snowmobiling magazines drooling over the new sleds. We put 600 miles on the truck to put 200 on the sled. We have all entered corners too fast, and all missed turns at night at one time or another. We laughed at slow riders that putted along at 15 mph. We rode with the feeling of invincibility that only youth can bring.

Our youth ended February 14, 2003.

In a small town about 10 miles South of Crandon, at 11:00 PM my friend Jim Smolen lost his life. He was only 28. He died within a half mile of the cabin, within half an hour of unloading the sleds off of the trailer. The reconstruction showed that he hit a stump under the snow, was thrown off, and hit a tree. At least he didn't suffer. Excessive speed was believed to have been involved, even though the sled wasn't wrecked. It looked like he just stepped off of it. He did have ONE or TWO beers, but I must say that I have seen people drink much more - I'm not condoning it, but I know you have too. Jim was riding as long as I can remember, 5+ years at least, riding the same sled he had for three years. We have all seen the articles in the papers that give little detail; letting us assume it was an inexperienced rider, totally drunk, on a brand new, huge displacement sled.

What the newspaper articles do not show is how it affects everyone else. They don't show the undescribable horror of seeing a close friend lying in the snow bleeding from the eyes, ears, nose and mouth. They don't show the blank stare in his unblinking eyes as you try to remember the CPR you learned in high school. They don't show the panic felt during the longest half mile you will ever ride back to the cabin to call 911. They don't show the feeling of helplessness as you spend the longest HALF HOUR of your life waiting for an ambulance. They don't tell about men who haven't prayed in years dropping to their knees and saying a prayer. They don't show the feeling of uneasiness as you drive HIS truck to the hospital. They don't show the cold you feel as you wait until 4:30AM when the doctors give you the news you already knew but still can't bring yourself to hear. They don't tell the flood of emotions you feel as you have to call your friend's parents in the middle of the night to tell them that their son has died. They don't mention that none of his friends will get any sleep for days. They don't mention the nightmares when they do. They don't tell about the DNR showing up at 8:00AM the next day to fill out paperwork and make them relive it all again. They don't tell about grown men breaking down and crying. They don't tell about the longest, quietest drive home ever.

His roommate is the one who found him, called his parents, and drove his truck home. He has closed the kitchen window blinds so he doesn't have to see his truck. He had to close the kitchen cabinet to keep from seeing his box of corn flakes. He is now afraid of the dark. Our season is over.

The human body is so frail, so easily damaged. If you have an accident in a big city, help is only about five minutes away. If you have an accident in the north woods help could be forty miles away or more. Think about it: that's like having an accident in Milwaukee and having to wait for an ambulance from Illinois. And then having to go to a hospital back in Illinois.

I am not asking for speed limits, or other restrictions. Just please, PLEASE be careful. Slow down just a little. Skip that beer and have a soda instead. Ask yourself if it is worth the consequences to go flying through the woods. Your friends WILL wait for you. Death is forever. Think of all the good times you would miss. Take a little time and look at the beauty of nature. There are those that no longer can.

We laid Jim to rest today. If only one person is affected by this pointless loss, and a single life is saved, Jim's death would have meaning and all of us could have some closure.

I know you think that this only happens to "the other guy". So did we. Just like you.

Geobound 01-01-2016 11:41 AM

WOW!

That's a great article to post.

Mihalovichd 01-01-2016 11:00 PM

Even though I know the whole thing I read it every year. One point to add with the unusually warm temps, don't risk riding on lakes that are marked closed!!

Man dead after snowmobile goes through ice in Oneida County - WAOW - Newsline 9, Wausau News, Weather, Sports

The Silverback 01-01-2016 11:39 PM

A sobering reminder jerry

Bontz 01-01-2016 11:53 PM

I think this story is 10+ years old, but I read it every year and it gives me chills. It could be any one of us every single season & I hope it makes people think every time they suit up. Thanks for posting it again this season Jerry.

benboat 01-02-2016 01:12 AM

Thanks for posting this Jerry. Good timing too with most of us getting a twitching thumb with this warm weather. I too read this every year as a good reminder to be safe. Most of my riding is done with my family and safety is the most important part.

Superair 01-02-2016 09:47 AM

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The Morancy's Adventures & Al's REVO Site.: I Survived did our story, it's airing now, Here is the rest of the story.

Another reminder.....

servocam 01-02-2016 11:38 AM

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Thank you for sharing.

ajax 01-03-2016 11:12 AM


wow....

servocam 01-03-2016 06:49 PM

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To add to this a little, I love ice fishing, and right now, the idiots are in full swing. We had such a early ice season last year and it is extremely late this year. For those of you who like to ride your sleds on the lake, be even more careful as there is still a lot of unsafe ice. I know a snowmobile is pretty much a jet ski with a track, but once you stop, it is a boat anchor. Already several sleds are sitting on the bottoms of MN and WI lakes.

Again, thank you for sharing this story!

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