Here it goes, I can't get it out of 4X4, it'll go between auto 4 and 4hi, then I try to go to 2 and it just kicks back from auto 4 to 4hi, I can hear the actuator trying, that would have been my first guess. Any ideas?

Oh ya, I forgot, I had a dumb moment, I was trying to keep the AC clutch on wen't to jump the harness from the accumulator, but it was dark and I grabbed the one that was just hanging there (they look the same) there doesn't seem to be anywhere to plug it in, but anyway, it blew the 4X4 fuse in the under dash pannel, I changed it. But I don't think this caused it because it's been acting up for a while, you sometimes have to try a few times to make it switch out of 4X4.

EDIT: I just checked the one I jumpped and it's putting out 14.12V, so I don't think thats the prob, and I can't find anything for it to plug into.