Chris, if it was ABOVE the spine in the neck as you said, most likely it will survive. Not trying to ease your pain, just being honest from what I have seen. Sounds like you gave him a bad piercing. There is a good amount of fat/tallow right where the neck goes up from the back. Any lower and you would have hit the spine and then had an ugly situation to deal with. A deer flopping around.
Steve is right though, to many warriors out there. I get sick when I am Gander Mtn. and see a women with good intentions buying a bow/gun for her husband or S/O as a gift. I have a co-worker with a bow from K-Mart about 5" to long in draw that his wife got him for his birthday :banghead:
For the record Chris, I am quite jealous of the deer you get to see. I can only dream about such a deer where I hunt, which is probably why I could care less about hunting anymore. I have proven I can take a deer year after year for a long time, but feel after 22 years I deserve a wallhanger for my perserverence and ethics. But it's not going to happen where I hunt

And I can not afford a "hunt of a lifetime" out of state.